I turn 33 on Sunday, which is…weird. I have grown, over the last few years, to feel pretty ambivilent about my birthday. Maybe it’s that I never quite know what to do, that I have to plan for most things myself, or that it never quite lives up to what I hope it’ll be. At the end of the day, it’s just another day, but as I have gotten older, I feel the necessity of marking it with something, including a blog post. So here’s 13 things I’ve learned this past year:
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Everything I am Doing to Publish my Book in 10 Months to have a Successful Launch
Clicking back to last week’s post, I’ve decided to pursue independent publishing, and am intending to publish my book in May of 2027. The grand plan is to build a level of momentum to publish two books a year, but a lot of these processes require infrastructure, of which I currently do not have. With all of that said, here is a rough timeline of everything I am gearing up for in writing and publishing my book:
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My family makes an annual pilgramage to Chicago, and I am always delighted to just exist in the city. Often, I’m left to wander and enjoy without having to anywhere to be, which is unusual for me. So join me, won’t you, for a highlights reel:
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On January 1st, I decided I was going to commit to myself. To my goals, my dreams, my aspirations. That I wanted to do something that mattered to me, and I was going to chase what I wanted to, no matter what anyone thought about it.
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The Road Not Taken: A Contemplation
Contemplation is one thing, my pride is another, to paraphrase. We can look back on our own lives, and see all the ways in which it splices, how every decision begets another decision, until you are where you are. I can tell you how I got here, but I’ve found myself daydreaming the “what if” as of late.
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I’m keeping myself busy for a lot of reasons. Maybe it’s because of the *everything* happening in the world, and I want to close in a little bit to the things I can control. Or maybe it’s because no matter the circumstance, I need to be doing as many things as possible.
Continue reading “Doing Everything: A Cautionary Tale”Multifaceted Personhood: Experience and Growth
I started a sentence the other day, “When I was working for this labor union,” and the person I was speaking to stopped me.
“What do you mean, ‘when you worked for a labor union?'” For what it’s worth, the story had nothing to do with the union, it was a silly story about a coffee that used to be available at a local chain coffee shop. Regardless, the question got me thinking. Over the last 10 years, I’ve had 20 different jobs that I list on Linkedin, and another 15-20 random freelance things that I’ve done. What has this bredth of experience taught me?
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Life is too short. Beyond the physical of the actual passage of time being short, there is also the phenomenon of time passing faster as you get older. I feel like the older I get, the faster time seems to go. Already, January is almost over, and I’m 1/12th of the way through the year.
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For me, picking a theme for the year sets the tone for how the year will go. I have, over the last 8 years or so, picked many themes, from “move” to “grace” to “survive.”
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